About
Twenty Five Days to Make a Difference is a Service Project Dedicated to:
My Grandpa, Al Stockman
Albert Stockman was my grandpa. He loved helping other people, and he believed that everybody could make the world a better place, not just by doing big things, but by doing small things too! My grandpa once told me that I was a leader. Even though he called me “Lit-tle Laura”, he made me feel big and strong inside.
In 2005, my grandpa got very sick. He was only in his sixties, and he was very happy and healthy before then. I was sad and scared when he was diagnosed with brain cancer. He died only five months later. I was very, very sad when he died, and I felt lonely. My grandpa would not have wanted this though.
In December of 2007, I decided that the best way to remember my grandpa during the holiday season would be by living my life like he did, by making a difference and being a leader. I decided to honor my grandfather’s memory by trying to make a difference every day for twenty five days. I wanted to be able to do little things, like kids my age typically do, instead of HUGE things that are sometimes hard for kids like me. I decided to write about my adventures here, and I also created a challenge.
I challenged everyone who read my blog to TRY to do something every single day during the holiday season to make a SMALL difference in his or her world. I explained that whoever made the “most difference” in December would win a $25.00 donation to the charity of his or her choice on Christmas night. I SAVED ALL OF MY ALLOWANCE ($25) FOR THE MONTH OF DECEMBER, AND I WAS REALLY SURPRISED AND EXCITED WHEN SEVERAL PEOPLE GENEROUSLY OFFERED TO MATCH MY DONATION (OR MORE)!
Roger Carr
Mr. and Mrs. Fisher from Starpoint
Kristen and Carmen and Maddie Marchiole
Mrs. Genovese-Scullion and Billy
Sheryl Nussbaum-Beach
Mrs. Nabozny
Dr. Sheila Cason
Laura Mayes
The Aroune Family
Dr. Alterio
Joanne from Western New York
Mark, Maggie, and Christopher Stockman
Kim Arthur
Christene Allen
and
Susan from Toddler Planet
RIGHT AFTER THIS FIRST CHALLENGE WAS OVER, I DECIDED TO TRY TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE ALL YEAR ROUND!!
I decided that I wanted to spend 2008 supporting smaller causes in my area that may not get as much attention or support as bigger ones do. I also wanted to pick causes that all of my readers could support as well, even if they lived very far away.
Each new challenge begins on the 1st of each month and ends on the 25th. My family and I use the last week of every month to get ready for the month ahead. I am raising funds for my chosen causes by recycling bottles that people donate to me. I am also doing a lot of service work as well all month long. I work closely with people from these organizations, and I get good ideas from them about how to help them best!
More than anything else, I want to YOU to participate.
The individual who makes the most difference for my chosen cause each month will win a $20 donation to ANY CHARITY of his or her own choice!
The classroom, school, group, or organization who makes the most difference for my chosen cause each month will also win a $20 donation to ANY CHARITY of their choosing!
Make sure that you leave a comment or email me so that I know you are participating! If you have a family-friendly blog or website, I will also link back to you so that you get some more visitors!
I hope that this will encourage everyone to make a small difference with me throughout the year!
Love,
Laura







Laura,
What a brilliant young lady you are — a shining example of what I call “inspiritry,” working for good in a way that inspires others to do the same! I will join you wholeheartedly and hope your network of peacemakers will grow into widening circles!Check out my blog, http://www.inspiritry.com/wordpress, to see the link to 25 Days!
Laura Dear!
This is the best way to show everyone how mature you are at such a young age. You are also a great influence on my grandson Andrew. I enjoyed working with both of you on the puzzles. I will get a small buffalo of mine to Andrew to give it to you as a prize
Good Luck and Happy Holy days.
Andrew’s Papa
It’s a wonderful idea and I hope you will achieve many more things than your expectations. I’m adding you in my blogroll.
Best wishes.
Laura, this is a great idea. I wish you all the best for it. Have you thought about doing something on http://www.change.org?
Laura,
You are such a thoughtful person, caring and so very kind. I do hope that this will be an inspiration to others your age, and adults as well. I will add your blog to our family homepage in the hopes that others will follow in your footsteps. Thank you so much for the donation to Suneel’s Light. Suneel is a very special friend of mine and I thank you for your generosity. Your Grandpa would be very proud of you!
Kristen
Laura,
I’m so happy to know that you are a part of this big world of ours. And I totally agree with your grandpa – the smallest act of kindness can indeed make the world a better place! Bravo to you! You go girl!
Kimberly
This is an amazing idea. I can’t wait to hear more about your good doings, and am inspired myself. I think I will do this for a “twelve days of Christmas” gift idea. For twelve days, I will try to do this too! I will be very close by and looking to see your accomplishments
Thanks not only for creating the project, but for deciding to share it with the world via a blog. I’m sure you’ll reach more people than you’ll ever know!
-jc
Laura - this is such a great idea. I’m going to try to do this too and make it a tradition every year. Thanks!
What a wonderful idea! I enjoyed reading about your first two days and your inspiration — your grandfather. Best of luck to you — I’ll check in on you and see how you’re doing, and my kids and I will try to do something each day too.
Laura, I am so inspired by what you’re doing here and will share the idea with our kids. We’ll be following your progress and cheering you on every step of the way!!!!
Laura,
I knew you were an amazing girl and you keep proving it over and over. You are a wonderful person and I am so glad I have had the opportunity to know you since you were a tiny baby. Chris and Marcus send their love. I will be going over this with them and we will be working to do one nice thing each day just as you requested. Please take care and give your family all our love - all the way from Oklahoma. We sure do miss you guys!!!!!!
Makes me think…thanks. Doubt I’ll make a ‘big’ difference (being totally broke and generally spending time chasing kids and such)…but little things, I can do. I’ll bookmark you and come back when I come up with something for today
Hi there Laura. Thank you for stopping by my blog and letting me know of your wonderful project.
I did a post in support of your project, and you can see it here…
http://catherinemarie.wordpress.com/
Best wishes.
LAURA,
WHAT A WONDERFUL ACT OF GIVING OF YOURSELF DURING THE HOLIDAY SEASON. MANY PEOPLE TALK ABOUT DOING SOMETHING AND NEVER FOLLOW THROUGH. YOUR GRANDFATHER MUST BE LOOKIN DOWN ON YOU AND SMILING RIGHT NOW. HE MUST HAVE BEEN AN AMAZING MAN. I WAS TOLD ABOUT YOUR
KINDNESS FROM KRISTEN. I AM ALSO A FRIEND TO SUNEEL AND APPRECIATE YOUR DONATION. EVERY LITTLE BIT IS IMPORTANT AND YOUR GIFT MEANS ALOT. YOUR STORY IS INSPIRING AND I WILL ALSO START A TRADITION WITH MY GRANDCHILDREN TO FOLLOW IN YOUR FOOTSTEPS.
SINCERELY,
MARIA
Dear Laura,
This project is one that affirms all the things I believe about the importance of doing what you can and it making a difference. You have inspired me to proceed with that one day at a time philosophy. Thanks and best wishes!
Laura,
I’m glad the spirit of Christmas is still alive today despite all of the “other” things that command our attention during this time of year. My mother always taught me that I could do anything I set my mind to. I believe that this sole piece of advice helped me to believe in myself unconditionally through high school and college, in my career, and in raising my three beautiful children. Best wishes.
Laura,
Uncle Mike and I continue to be extremely proud of you. Twenty Five Days to Make a Difference is just another example of your warmth and generosity. Keep up the good work. We’ll look forward to reading about your project during the month. Best wishes and hugs! Aunt J
hi there–i got the skinny about this blog by reading a friend of mine’s blog. i am so inspired–it makes me remember how hopeful i was when i was 10. i’m now a grown up w/ a family and i hope my son will be as generous as you are when he’s 10! you have reminded me how very easy it is to make a difference–any one can do it–it doesn’t matter how old you are! i will join you! today i made a difference by lending an ear to my verrrrrry pregnant neighbor who is so miserable right now, eventhough i was in a hurry. i listened to her and encouraged her and tried to give her a little hope. and i think it worked!
What a teriffic thing to do! I’m sure your grandfather is proud of you! I can’t wait to read about what you do! Every year I do something similar. This year I baked 29 lbs of Christmas Cookies and Candy and sent it to a unit of guys in the Army who are stationed overseas.
Hi, Laura! I’ve heard your mom talk about you so much that I often felt I knew you and what a neat kid you are. But this website, the idea behind it, and the picture of your grandfather have shown me that my impression of you wasn’t even close! I am so touched at what you are doing, why you are doing it, and the effect you are having on others that I have tears streaming down my face! You truly are inspiring the young and old alike…it’s amazing! You are a shining example of what this time of year is all about…giving of yourself…and you are showing others the way. Way to go, kiddo!
We or doing this as well but in our own little way. We are working on being a happy family, cooperating and helping each other out. We are using our Advent House and filling it with our good deeds. We ended up with so many matchbox cars and candy last year I wanted to do something different. Then we are going to read them on Christmas Day. What a neat idea we are sharing it on our Blogs as well. Thanks so much.
I am excited to hitch on to this idea. Congratulations on creating such action! I don’t have a blog, but I will do my best to keep up! Best wishes.
We always try to teach our little girl that being good to others is the better thing to do - be it kids, animals or any other creature for that matter. We will keep teaching her by example, the world is a much better place if you can help someone or make someone smile.
You are doing a great job and it is fantastic that you set an example -lead the way - for others to follow. You go girl!
Laura, you are truly a wonderful young lady and I am inspired by your adventures.
Laura i was so sad when i read this i know how it feels like to have someone so close to you die. Because my grandma died of brain cancer and i was really close to her. the day she died i creid so much.
love your bff
Julie
Lit-tle Laura…with a GIANT heart!!! One of Grandpa’s favorite quotes was “Do small things with great love.” This is just what he meant. Thank you!
Laura, People are kept alive in our hearts forever by what they have said or done. Your Grandpa most have been a very special person. I am sure he is smiling down at you and gleaming with so much pride.
Best wishes for you and your family this Christmas season and all your life.
Your made me smile.
Coleen
normailen, Thanks for adding me to your blogroll.— Laura
Thank you Kimberly! what you said is really kind!
Laura,
I had the good fortune of knowing your Grandpa and being able to work on a community project with him. We were designing/building a playground in memory of a little girl from our community who had been killed in an accident. I saw your Grandpa take great pains to make sure that this playground would be a beautiful, peaceful place for her family and friends to be able to come and honor her life.
Your Grandpa lives on in you Laura. You have his gift of designing and building in order to help others. By using this technology you have designed a beautiful project for the sole reason of honoring Grandpa Al.
Thank you for the wonderful reminder of how much nicer it is to give than to receive during this Holiday Season!
Hi there Laura,
I just wanted to say what a great idea this is and that I will be telling other people here in New Zealand about what you are doing. You have snowflakes on your blog design but here it is in the middle of the summer so if I was doing a blog like yours, I’d have pictures of the beach and sunshine. I am sure that there are plenty of good deeds that people in New Zealand can get involved with over the Xmas holidays. Let’s all pass it forward.
I think that that’s really neat Ms. Vesper!
Laura,
What an incredible inspiration you are! I wrote about you today on my pediatric website. My family is honored to join you in your endeavor!
Sheila Cason MD
http://www.mommymd.org
Laura,
I found about about your blog and your project from another blog. You are incredible. I can’t wait to share your blog with my students. I will try and make a difference every day also. Thanks so much for the difference you are making!
Patty J.
Hello Miss Laura!
I am honored to have found your site. You are an extraordinary young lady and your project is wonderful. I don’t know if you realize how many lives you are positively impacting around the world!
Thank you for reminding me how easy it is to make a difference each and every day. : )
Laura,
This is a great idea! You are a very special girl and we were
so pleased to read your blog. You are doing a kindness in the world
and inspiring others to do so.
Keep it up!
Lisa (Aunt Joanie’s sister) and Michael
Uncle John, Mecca, and I are so proud of you! We want you to know that we hope that we are making a difference by lending money through Kiva.org to Mrs. Bendette Wangui of Nigeria. Our loan has allowed her to buy a new cow to support her fresh dairy business and lift her family out of poverty. I hope that you continue to inspire me for a long time!
Laura,
What a great idea and inspiration. I’m getting a late start but I will try to make it to 25 by Christmas. Next year I’ll try to come up with a way to inspire my elementary computer classes. Thank you for your inspiration!
Laura, How wonderful!! I have known your fathers family for many years. Your grandparents, uncles, Larry, Mark, Paul,Michael and Albert and aunts Barb,and Kate Youare a great inspiration for all of us! Your parents must be so proud of you! Keep up the good work, sweetie.
God Bless you,
Sue
Hello Laura!
You are an amazing young lady and inspiration to educators and other students! I found your blog through another blog; I cannot wait to share with this with my fellow librarians (and teachers) as well our students. I think your blog is a shining example of what students can do when limits are not imposed upon their creativity.
As Galadriel said in Lord of the Rings, “Even the smallest person can change the course of the future.” Thank you for making a difference!
Buffy Hamilton,
Teacher-Librarian
http://theunquietlibrary.wordpress.com
Laura,
After giving it some thought I have decided to get my students involved this week. I have put a blog on my school homepage asking families to share the ways they are making a difference. Then when I checked back and saw your questions tonight I added those to the blog as well. Hopefully we’ll get some answers! I added an RSS feed to the page.
Happy Holidays,
Nedra
Hello there Laura -
I think what you are doing is amazing - it really captures the essence of the season and what we should all be doing year-round for one another.
I teach classes for future teachers at D’Youville College and will definitely be talking about your blog next semester!
Best wishes for a peaceful holiday season,
Pauline Schmidt
Laura,
This project is amazing. What a tribute to your grandpa and inspiration for us all!
Marianne
Laura
this is a great thing your doing and doing it in a rememberence of someone else makes it even greater !!!!
<33 marisssa
i love that you are doing this
this was a great idea to help people like this!!!i had an idea to !!!i was going to ask the class to collect toy they do not play with and me and my mom or dad will drop them of at an orphan home!!!mabey i can collect cans and bottles for my friends marissa’s dad !!
Hannah (from school)
You should be so proud of yourself. I hope you don’t mind if I add you to my blogroll. Just today I wrote a post about how we need our kids to start young doing community service. You are a role model for so many kids. Good for you!
Sorry - not blogroll - I meant I will do a post about you….
Laura,
I just wanted to say that you ROCK!! I am SO PROUD of you and I am HONORED to have you as one of my students!
If there’s any way I can help you just let me know, you know i’m always here for you. Keep up the good work! You’re the BEST!!!!
Love always,
Miss Steinhauser
Laura, you are a terrific young lady. This is a very admirable endeavor. What a fantastic role model you are for all of us!
Laura, My resolution for 2008 was to become inspired by people so I could inturn by a better person and hopefully inspire others. YOU are a true inspiration and I wish the world was full of more people like you. I have a site as well devoted to inspiring others to be more charitable. I am going to put a link to your site on mine , if that’s okay with you! Please let me know. I would love it if you could do the same for me. Keep up this very important work you are doing… it will not be for naught! We CAN make change happen! The details about my campaign for change program on located on the site on the sidebar on the righthand side!
Many Blessings! Nicole
Hi Laura,
I wanted to say thank you to you and your Mom for coming to our Blanket Day today. It was very nice to meet you face to face and your Mom as well. Good luck with your site…I hope it turns out to be even more than you would ever have expected. It sounds like you had a great Grandpa…….and we can clearly see he has a wonderful granddaughter!! Keep up the good work and thanks for supporting Project Linus.
Karen Weishaar
Hi Laura,
It was great to meet you and your Mom yesterday. You did an awesome job making the fleece blankets with your Mom.The grand total of blankets that were made for our annual blanket day was 214. A Project Linus label will be sewn onto each blanket and then they will be delivered to the children. Thanks for all your help and for choosing Project Linus as one of your February charities to support. Our website will be up soon so you will be able to see more pictures from blanket day.Enjoy your prize.
Christine Lewandowski
Dear Laura,
I am so impressed! It is hard to lose someone that you love, no matter how old you are! To see you handle such a big loss by replacing with an even greater accomplishment is truly an inspiration. How proud your family (and especially your Grandpa) must be. Just wait…I’ll bet as you grow up… there is nothing you can’t do! You go girl!!!!
Dear Laura,
It was so nice meeting you today at Compass House. Your blog is great, and I have only begun to read through it! It will be so helpful if you can help us out by spreading the word about what we do, both to kids who might need our services and adults who might donate some of their time! You are a sweety with a big heart, and a really dedicated mom!
My dear Laura,
I am very happy to stumble upon your blog. You have a big heart and I am very proud of you.
I myself try to make a difference in any way I can. I live in Singapore and collect books for the public school we adopted in the Philippines where most of the students are very poor. We have to be the change we want to see in the world. I will put a your badge in my blog. Take care and Keep up the great work you are doing!
Laura,
I just happend to come across your blog and I think what you are doing is absolutely wonderful. I wish you the best and I know that your efforts will make an impact on this world!!!
Yo Laura,
Your website is off the hook. We are in 5th grade, and we are committed to doing mitzvot [Hebrew for good deeds]. As Jews we are commanded to make the world a better place. Our blog is based on your blog. We would like you to link to our site and/or we want you to recommend our site, please.
Thanks,
Ari and Sarah
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hi laura
I just read about your project in NeXt and I am really really impressed. It’s nice to see somebody your age getting involved and helping out in a tangible way. Keep up the great work! I’ll check back to this site!
hey laura.
i found out about your blog for a school assignment i had to do! i can’t believe how big your thing has gotten! nice job! your whole idea got me thinking about doing something like it, just more for animals! i’m really impressed! i’ll keep checking back. keep up the good work!
Hi Laura.
I am so sorry that you lost your grandfather. He sounds like such a wonderful person. I am sure he is just beaming with pride as he watches you carry on his legacy in such an honorable way. No doubt that ‘everyone’ that knows you is very proud of you.
You are an inspiration. Best of luck now and always.